The Kelly Boys

A Gift

2011-05-09T10:34:00.000-07:00

I am truly the most blessed woman in the world! My husband spoiled me this past weekend and made me feel like a princess (seriously, over the top spoiled me!)... I love having all these boys taking care of me.

I have learned a few things about being a mom the past 5 1/2 (almost 6, yikes!!!) years. I've learned that it is nothing like I thought it would be, it's more rewarding and harder than I imagined. I've learned that I can't do it alone. Trey's support and love allows me to be the best mom I can be. God's grace abounds when it comes to parenting and I'm thankful He starts everyday with new promises and hope. However, what I've learned the most about has to be...

the gift of the ordinary day. I don't know how many of you have seen the video on y0utube, but it is very touching and puts in to words what I have been learning the last few years. Without a doubt I would say God used my sweet nephew Bayler to teach me to appreciate the gift of DAILY life with my children more than any song or book ever could. So right now, I am just thankful that I get to be the mom to these 3 amazing boys EVERY, ORDINARY, day. I want to remember how everyday...

...Jacob wakes with a smile and peaks through the crib to see who is coming to rescue him.
...Jon wants to cuddle on the couch with his night-nights and watch a show before he starts his day.
...David has to know what our schedule is and what time everything is happening.
...when I roll over and see my handsome husband lying beside me, my heart still skips a beat.
...Jacob squeals with delight when we bounce down the stairs or he sees his brothers.
...David makes the cutest "baby voice" when he talks to Jacob.
...Jon hugs so tight and calls me sweet mudder.
...Jacob has the sweetest little baby dimples on his hands and I love the smell of his baby breath.
...Jon loves for me to rub his back when he's going to sleep.
...David follows his dad around like a little shadow and adores him to pieces.
...my life is so full and my cup runs over.

First Tooth

2011-04-16T13:20:00.000-07:00

This little bunny FINALLY got his first tooth. I think he's been teething since he was 4 months old! By the way, I'm sure he'll be pretty upset when he sees these pictures one day.

Have I mentioned he is very loved???

His brothers take very good care of him... kisses are given by the hour around here :)!

David plays ball!

2011-04-10T16:52:00.001-07:00

Our little ball player did so well this weekend! I was amazed at the difference in his ability to pay attention and follow the rules this year in comparison to last year. Even his t-shirt fit him! He is getting so big.

"David! Are you goin' to let me play too? I'll show you how to run super fast!"- Jon

Trey was working so he had to meet us at the field. Papa Dock rode with me to help unload our clan. I guess great minds think alike, ha!

Coach Bobby had David show the team how to get ready to hit. David is a great listener and it helps him on the field. This past weekend he played first base, short stop, and behind the pitcher. He had a blast!

Daddy T came to watch one of his 7 grandsons play ball (DeeDee had the stomach flu). Think they will spend a lot of time at the ball field?!? At least Rob and Risha are expecting a little girl soon. We need a little pink in the mix :)!

Overheard

2011-04-10T16:05:00.000-07:00

"Jon-Jon! Get off the counter! How many times have I told you... we DO NOT play with knives?!?"

"Boys! Washing hands and flushing is required EACH TIME you go to the bathroom. Not just sometimes."

"But it's my turn on the ipad, mom!!!"

"Bam!" "Huh!" "Pish!" "Shish!"... or any sound you think a superhero can make. Constantly. David makes noise constantly.

Family Night: Baseball season is here!

2011-04-08T17:56:00.001-07:00

We had a very short, but sweet, family night tonight. David's t-ball season starts tomorrow so I was determined to kick it off with a baseball themed family night! Wellspring is moving into MB Middle School this weekend so Trey is super busy, but we managed to fit in about 45 minutes of family time after they finished t-ball practice before he was out the door again :). We ate hot dogs, chips, and I made baseball cupcakes too!

This kid LOVES baseball! He is SO excited about playing tomorrow.

Our littlest slugger was in bed before the night began, however I did take his picture before bath time. This was Trey's hat when he was a baby... so precious!

What a funny kid! Jon is going to have a tough time watching David from the stands this year. He wants to play too... next year he'll be old enough. And I'll have to hire a driver to balance all the different practices and games :)!

We spent a few minutes reviewing each position during dinner and made up our very own "secret" hand shake for when David takes the field tomorrow. My boys are so much fun! After dinner we watched Everyone's Hero and had some snuggle time on the couch. By far, my favorite part of the night was when David looked at me and said...

"Mom, do you think Bayler is playing baseball in heaven with Babe Ruth? I bet he is! That is so cool." Love that kid so much! And boy, do we ever miss The Bean! What a special kid he was...

Quote

2011-04-05T17:41:00.000-07:00

"I think God is singing the Poop Goes in the Potty song right now and saying YAY JON because He just saw me go poop in the potty!!!"- Jon, age 3

Jon Strikes Again!

2011-03-31T12:15:00.000-07:00

So... yesterday I had to run into the grocery store for 5 things. I didn't write down the 5 items because one would think a 33 year old, somewhat intelligent, mom to 3 boys could remember such a short list. I had to concentrate. Hard. With 3 boys in tow. All is well until I go to check out with previously mentioned 5 (now 7 because the boys each wanted something that I said "yes" to) items. No wallet. I knew I had put the wallet in the buggy, but now it is gone. First thought? Someone took it. Next thought... Jon.

Me: "Boys, did you see what happened to mommy's wallet?!?"

Jon: "Yes, I made it dis-da-pier." "Wike magic!"

Me: "What!?! Where?!?"

David: "Oh yeah mom, Jon threw your wallet on the floor by the apples (our first stop in the store mind you!) and said it was magic. I don't think it was a very good trick though!"

Thankfully a nice employee was putting out fruit and noticed it lying in the middle of the floor. She turned it in and I was able to pick it up at the service desk.

It will be at least 2 more years before they see the inside of the grocery store again!!!

This kid...

2011-03-23T18:00:00.001-07:00

...might make me lose my mind! Just recently he has...

*drank 1/2 bottle of children's ibuprophen, requiring me to call poison control at 5:30am to find out if he needed to visit the ER. Thankfully, he didn't.
*is on his 3rd case of strep throat this winter.
*only took 3 and 1/2 years to potty train.
*been awake by 4:30am for almost 4 nights straight, ready to start his day. Not cool. At all.

He also makes me laugh harder and feel more loved by...

*saying words like:
bah-bum (bottom)
be-got (forgot)
be-sert (dessert)
I can't spell how he says "Jacob", but it sounds like ketchup.
*he calls me "sweet mama" or "mud-der" (mother), ha!
*just running up and hugging me really tight.

Jon-Jon is a mess and his passion has been in full force lately. What a character! I hope this is not a reflection of his teenage years... I might not make it!

Happy St. Patrick's Day!

2011-03-18T09:57:00.000-07:00

We had a grand day,

with our 3 little,

leprechauns!

(the oldest 2 were to busy to sit for pictures!)

Family Night: Dr. Seuss

2011-03-12T05:25:00.000-08:00

We had family night again last night. David was sick when our preschool did Wacky Wednesday and celebrated Dr. Seuss' birthday so I promised him we would do our own at home. Again, so easy and we all had a blast! My friend Jessica did this with her 3 boys last week so I took her idea for our dessert... cat in the hat, hats!

We dressed WACKY and ate green eggs and ham. My boys LOVE breakfast foods, so there were no disagreements about finishing dinner :)!

We read books during dinner...

and took pictures of the wackiest boys. Trey would have won first prize :).

After dinner we played I Can Do That, which is a cat in the hat game for preschoolers. David received it for Christmas. It's a really fun (not long!) game :). We had a great time together. I love all the sweet boys God has given me!

I want to eat him with a spoon...

2011-03-11T16:36:00.000-08:00

He is just the sweetest, happiest little guy! We are so in love!

Seven

2011-03-10T16:37:00.001-08:00

I just can't believe that Jacob is already 7 months old! The time is really going too quickly. I think I cherish each stage more with him than I did with David and Jon. I regret not taking more time to enjoy their daily life as infants, but I guess realizing how fast it passes just comes with maturity. I LOVE how he completes our family. And I always want to remember how LOVED this little guy is... his brothers both think he is the greatest. And he thinks the same of them. Most days I will find at least one of them making him laugh so hard he gets the hiccups!

Jakey poo is such a GREAT, GREAT baby! He is cutting teeth right now so he has some interrupted naps and LOTS of drool, but other than that he is easy going. His day to day schedule looks like this:

7:00am- nurses, cereal
Goes to Ju-Gi's house to play :)!
AM nap
11:00- bottle (6oz.)
Mid day cat nap in his car seat while I run errands and pick up boys from school
2:00- nurses
Afternoon nap
4:30- nurses
5:30 veggie, fruit
Bath- his FAVORITE!
6:30- nurses
Down for the night!

Development:
He can ALMOST sit by himself.
He loves bath time and splashes in the water like a crazy kid!
Rolls everywhere.
"Talks" a lot... much more than David and Jon because Jacob won't take a paci.
Likes food... especially avocado, bananas, sweet potatoes, squash, and pears.
Already likes to drink water from a sippy cup.
Loves to hug and cuddle.
His favorite toy is the exersaucer.
Enjoys strolling.
Often sucks in his bottom lip (see following picture).
Completely ROCKS on Sunday mornings when his whole schedule is disrupted.
His hair is so long on top, if we don't comb it over it covers his eyes.
And he STILL has blue eyes.

Jacob, you are one amazing little blessing. I can't imagine our family without you and we can't wait to see how God uses you to do great things one day. Our prayer is that you love Him more than anything else. We can't wait until you can run around with your big brothers, but secretly we love that you're still the baby. You always will be! We love you so much little man...

Family Night: Karate Kid Style

2011-03-06T13:08:00.000-08:00

I've been reading Heather's blog for a while. She does something called Family NIght and I've always wanted to start something like it for the boys. Honestly, I was just waiting for them to get a little older. I've learned (mostly from trying organized sports with kids under the age of 5, ha!) that we have much higher expectations than the kids do when it comes to "special" things. Now that David is older, Trey and I both felt he would really "get" that the purpose of the night was for them to know we care about them, love them, and want to spend time doing things as a family that they would love to do! My one goal for the night was for them to have fun and us spend a few hours together as a family. I think it was a success!

It was actually really simple, cost us no extra $, and we all had a great time. The menu was pizza rolls, fruit, and fortune cookies... all eaten with chop sticks, of course!

I made all of us "karate kid" headbands with our names on them. And for the boys, I cut up some of Trey's old t-shirts to make karate outfits. David has worn his to bed and a birthday party since Friday :)!

Even Jacob joined in the fun!

Trey and I both thought Jon looked a little like the character "Johnny" on the original Karate Kid movie...

And Jon ate EVERY bite with his chop sticks! "HI-YA! Momma!"

Yum...

After dinner, Trey did a little karate "lesson" with the big boys while I put Jacob to bed. Oh my! They loved it!

"This is fun dad!" -Jon

They had a great time...

Of course, there were tears... I'm not sure why Jon was crying. Maybe Trey let the boys have a real match and David forgot Jon was only 3?!?

After dinner and karate lessons we all sat down and watched the new Karate Kid movie. It was not as good as the original, but David and Jon really liked it.

Can't wait for the next family night!

Puzzle Boy

2011-03-05T11:28:00.000-08:00

This kid LOVES to do puzzles! Jon will sit for a while in the evening and do puzzles. He sticks out his tongue and concentrates really hard. So cute!

Mimi gave Jon a set of 4 Thomas puzzles that are his current favorite. He will line them up and make sure all the edges match and make a straight line. This picture is what happens I ask him to smile at the camera... what a stinker!

Brains

2011-02-12T11:52:00.000-08:00

The boys have hit some milestones lately and I wanted to document them...

David: His reading and writing improve daily. We have almost completed his 100 books for the year (since Christmas break) so he will be a part of the 100 book club. He reads at a level 8. He wrote this at school last week...

I think love is lovein God because he takxa kyr of us. David K.

Jon: Knows all but 4 of his letters (Gg, Hh, Uu,Vv) and can write his name. He signed each of his valentines for his classmates. He still won't poop on the potty.

Jacob: Found his toes this week and beamed with pride!

6 Months

2011-02-03T14:24:00.001-08:00

David. February 2006

Jon. May 2008

Jacob. February 2011

Quote remembered...

2011-01-30T03:58:00.001-08:00

As quoted by Trey while we were deliriously climbing into bed last night:
"I think this pretty much sums up our daily life right now. Look what is in our bed... a laser gun, baby sweater, a pink princess pull-up (long story), and butt paste."

Gotta love it!!!

Found: Pictures from Mexico

2011-01-23T15:19:00.000-08:00

I recently found my small camera which I took on vacation with us this summer to Mexico! Funny story... last Christmas, Trey and Jake worked together to surprise Anne and I with a trip to Playa del Carmen in June of 2010. Trey booked the trip on December 22nd. I found out I was pregnant with Jacob on December 23rd. My doctor said it was fine for me to still travel and we had a blast! I wish I hadn't been pregnant because Trey and I do not get to travel often, but we still had fun and loved spending time with Jake and Anne. Here are some pictures of a VERY pregnant me and our trip :)!

We stayed at The Royal in Playa del Carmen... it was AMAZING! The food was delicious, the rooms were heavenly, and the spa even had a prenatal massage they offered :)!

Since we live at the beach, Trey and I spent more time in the pools... I did what I do best when I have no responsiblities, READ! This summer's pick was "The Help" and it was incredible!!!

The four of us... it really was great to spend time with Jake and Anne. We miss them!

The perfect couple :)!

Relaxed and ready to come home... or maybe not :)!

Jacob is growing so fast...

2011-01-23T15:13:00.000-08:00

One Month.

Two Months.

Three Months.

Four Months.

Five Months.

And his eyes are still BLUE!

Jacob is such a delight...
He rarely cries.
Sleeps from 7 pm to 6 am most nights.
Exclusively nurses, except for the pumped bottle he gets while I teach.
LOVES his brothers and bath time.
Stays with his Ju-Gi while I teach morning preschool.
Smiles all the time.
Can't sit yet, but likes to stand in your lap.
Rolls over occasionally.
Hates the paci and refuses to take one.
Is truly laid back.
FINALLY likes his car seat.
Is a joy and we are so happy he is a part of our family!

Jon, age 3

2011-01-23T14:10:00.000-08:00

What's your favorite food? Pizza!
What's your favorite veggie? Carrots
What's your favorite fruit? Bananas
What's your favorite dessert? Candy
What's your favorite toy? Telescope
What's your favorite thing to do? Wrestle with Daddy
What's your favorite candy? Popsicle
What's your favorite thing to do outside? Swing
What's your favorite color: Orange (Bayler would be so sad, ha)
Who is your best friend: Steven and Anderson
What's your favorite thing to do with David? Wrestle
What's your favorite thing to do with Jacob? Play
What do you want to be when you grow up? Preacher
Where do you want to go on an airplane? Airport
What is your favorite book? Green Eggs and Ham
What's your favorite song?Hey, Soul Sister and Tonights Going to be a Good Night
What is one wish you have? To get a teddy bear (???)

Jon-Jon is still our funny, passionate little man! He eats and runs non-stop, 24/7. Jon loves to wake up early (always the first up, even before Jacob!) and loves to snuggle on the couch with me. He likes to watch Scooby-Do and Go Diego Go. He loves "my David" as he still says and likes to hug Jacob. Jon is trying us with the pouting when he doesn't get his way... I think it works for a few people in his life because they can't say "no" to those big brown eyes :)! He has a made up word, "babone", that he uses when he thinks he is about to get in trouble or anytime he wants to make you laugh, ha! He still isn't potty trained, ugh! But we are working on it daily. He has the pee-pee part down, he just doesn't like to poop in the potty and refuses to tell us when he needs to go. I love his current age... his speech is my favorite. We can understand everything he says, but it is still so cute. He replaces his "Ll's" for "Ww's". He often says "I weally, weally wove you!" and "I wove everyone in the worwd!". Priceless!!! He loves school and knows a lot of his letters. Jon can write his name and likes to draw. His teacher says he is very attentive in class.
Jonathan, we love you very much and can't wait to see how God uses all the passion you have for life!!!

David, age 5

2011-01-23T14:05:00.000-08:00

What's your favorite food? Salmon
What's your favorite veggie? celery
What's your favorite fruit? All of them
What's your favorite dessert? ice cream
What's your favorite toy? Megamind
What's your favorite thing to do? Go to the dollar store with my money
What's your favorite candy? All kinds of candy are good!
What's your favorite thing to do outside? Jump in our jumpy
What's your favorite color: Green
Who is your best friend: Everyone in my class and Jackson. Oh, and God!
What's your favorite thing to do with Jon? Hide and go seek
What's your favorite thing to do with Jacob? Make him laugh
What do you want to be when you grow up? Preacher, artist, and a baseball player
What do you like about the beach? waves in the ocean
Where do you want to go on an airplane? Hawaii
What is your favorite Bible verse? Proverbs 3: 5&6
What's your favorite song?Hey, Soul Sister, 3 Birds, Don't Worry Be Happy
What's is one wish you have? That everyone in the world would have a Bible (melt my heart!).

David is one amazing little kid! He is independent, yet loves to hang out with us. He is bold, yet humble. He is smart, loving, kind, patient, tinder-hearted, entertaining, and all boy. This kid blesses me all day long! I know he isn't perfect, but I truly have a hard time finding his faults :). I can not believe my baby is 5 years old... or 5 and a half, as he would quickly tell you. David has a heart for Jesus and loves to sing and worship. He is an incredible reader for his age... and he loves the fact that he can read his early readers Bible all by himself. He loves his brothers dearly and, for the most part, is very patient with them. He and Jon-Jon love to share a room and his favorite thing to do is help me with Jacob. He gets diapers, burp cloths, and bibs for me when I need them. He will stand in front of Jacob's highchair and talk to him for 30+ minutes while I cook dinner. Jacob just lights up when he hears his voice! I love watching David grow. He is blessed to have such a great dad... the one person he looks up to the most. He tries to be more like him everyday. I love you David and you fill my heart with joy every minute of every day!

Jacob at the hospital.

2011-01-23T12:51:00.000-08:00

Jacob was born at 3:31 am, so by the time I was moved to my room the sun was coming up. Trey and I slept about 1 hour and they finally brought our sweet baby to the room!
Even though Jacob was a few weeks early, he was hungry! He had no problems latching on and we enjoyed a few quiet hours before his big brothers came to see us...

Mimi was staying at our house with David and Jon. I can not even tell you what a blessing it was to be near family this time!

Papa came too... bringing flowers and food. Yay! (Look how proud David looks... love him!)

My Aunt Dah just happened to be visiting the beach when Jacob made his appearance... it was awesome to have her close enough to come by for a visit!

Wellspring staff wives, plus Jacob :)!

Just like the day Jon was born, what I will always remember was David's reaction to his newest little brother! He was smitten from the moment he saw him...

He couldn't get enough of him. He kissed him a few 100 times during their short visit. Jon did well during the hospital visit, but was more interested in the buttons on my bed and the wall. He did not want to sit still for any pictures either. Oh well! Such is life with a 2 year old :)!

Jacob was born on August 10th, David's birthday is August 11th. So, David's one birthday wish was for Jacob to come home...

3 of my 4 boys!

After just one night in the hospital, we bundled up our last little baby and took him home. David was thrilled!

We love our little family of boys!!!

The day Jacob was born.

2011-01-17T16:42:00.000-08:00

Here is my last picture as a soon to be mom... 37 weeks!

Call me crazy, but I love a good birth story. Maybe it's because it is such a life changing day... whether it's the first child or the third child coming into the world, you know your life is about to change for the better in ways you could never guess. Each one of our children's birthdays are some of my most treasured memories.

Jacob decided to make his appearance 3 weeks early. His due date was 8-28-10, but I didn't think we'd make it that long. David was one week early and Jon was 2 weeks early, so I think it rather fitting that he came 3 weeks early! My ob, Dr. Markley, is amazing. She and her family are a huge part of our church and they are there every week, so when I saw her on Sunday the 8th, I told her about my contractions I'd had the night before... I almost called her because my contractions were about 10 minutes apart for 3 hours straight. Then they just went away. So, she said to let her know when I got to her office the following day for my regular weekly appointment. A lot went on during the morning of 8-9-10. They had me come in early, I was 3 cm, they monitored me, tried to send me home, she found out, told me to go home and eat lunch, then head to the hospital to be monitored by her. Therefore... I went home, ate a sandwich, threw the car seat base in the car, dropped the kids off at Eric and April's house until Mimi could get there, and headed to the hospital. By the time I was hooked up to monitors, I had progressed to 5 cm, so I was certainly staying to have a baby! Yay! Now, Trey and I were still a little shocked that it was actually going to be the day... but, we thought 8-9-10 would be such a cool birthdate. Ha, Jacob certainly had other plans!
I could sort of feel my contractions at this point, but nothing really painful. My nurse, Kelly, was incredible... she offered me the epidural within an hour or 2 of being at the hospital. I was never really in any pain. (By the way, Kelly and her family are now a part of Wellspring as well. They are a precious family and I'm so glad to mark J's bday as the beginning of a great friendship.) I got my epidural, they broke my water, and we waited. And waited, and waited. Dr. Markley started me on pitocin at around 10:00pm. I believe I was only at 7cm at that point... we were still holding out for 8-9-10 as his birthdate. But 12:00am came and went. I slept, my parents slept in the waiting area, and Trey tried to sleep in a chair. Finally at around 3:25 am I started to push. At 3:31am Jacob Daniel Kelly was born! He weighed 7lbs. 10ozs. He was 21 1/2 inches long. He looked EXACTLY like David! In fact, thats the first thing Trey said to me when he went to take pictures of him...

Jacob Daniel Kelly 7lbs. 10oz. of pure joy!

The best part about being in S.C. this time was that our parents were able to be there during the actual birth. My parents left work early the day I went into labor. They stayed until 4 or 5 am. It was really special to have them there this time!

Dee Dee and her 6th grandson.

He is such a great baby! He nursed right away, hardly cries, and is so happy. Truly a blessing! I'll blog about our hospital stay next... my favorite part of having a baby is the weeks following the big day :)!

In 2010 we...

2011-01-16T13:48:00.000-08:00

Welcomed Jacob Daniel...

And turned 5 the next day!

Enjoyed our favorite summer treat.

Learned to sleep in a big boy bunk bed with David.

Learned to swim like a champ!

Turned into a big boy overnight.

Played in the snow.

Stole my mama's heart!

Played tee ball, his favorite sport!

There are lots more things to remember about this past year, but I am going to do a kid-by-kid recap soon.

Looking back at the year 2010, I can say it was full of highs and lows for us. We welcomed a new family member (I'll document Jacob next) and said good-bye to my sweet nephew Bayler. We traveled, lost teeth, welcomed new neighbors, and had a blast reaching people in Myrtle Beach. We are thankful for all the year offered and look forward to 2011!

Back in the saddle...

2011-01-16T13:37:00.000-08:00

Well, I've obviously taken a LONG break on this blog. I won't pretend to try to catch up, but I do want to start posting again. Why? Because this little place in cyberspace is my memory book. I don't like to scrapbook and I never remember to write special moments down (Jacob doesn't even have a baby book!), so this is the only place I have to look back on my kids lives. You think you'll remember all the funny things they say or do, but you don't. So, while blogs of all kinds exist, this one will solely be to document what our family does day by day. Thanks for reading!

David takes the runway..

2009-12-10T03:58:00.000-08:00

A few months ago, my silly 4 year old was asked to be in a fashion show that benefited the Make a Wish Foundation. He gladly excepted the challenge and joined about a dozen kids from the MB area to strut his stuff...

I have to admit, I was a little nervous. David was one of the youngest kids in the show and he had a long wait "backstage" until his turn to walk. However, he was happy to take his turn in the spotlight! He marched down the runway and took his time at the end... then he struck a pose and walked off. He loved it and the crowd loved him :)!

He was so handsome in the outfit picked for him...

My hot husband also had a turn to show off some clothes!

We had a great night... Aunt Courtney and Uncle Ryan were in town so they babysat Jonathan while the rest of us enjoyed the show! It was fun and we were very proud of David for braving the crowd!

I love this guy!

2009-11-14T16:43:00.000-08:00

He is constantly...

singing...

talking...

helping...

teaching his brother...

entertaining...

laughing...

eating...

imagining...

and making me feel like the most blessed mommy in the world! David is growing up so quickly and we are amazed to see how God speaks to him already at the age of 4. While we are aware he is not perfect, we are truly humbled to watch such a sweet little boy grow up before our eyes. We love you so much David!!!

Jon's diagnosis...

2009-11-05T11:41:00.001-08:00

Well, we seem to have found a solution to all of this little monkey's problems :)! Jonathan has 3 different issues that are causing his diapers to be so horrible and him constantly getting sores in his throat...

1. He has acid reflux! Who knew?!? Actually, I asked our pediatrician about this last spring, but she ruled it out (we have since changed pediatricians, not just for this reason but it certainly supported our decision). We are starting a prescription for this 2x's per day...

2. His body doesn't breakdown/tolerate whey (or any other dairy product, however he doesn't intake any other dairy related enzymes due to his allergy). He now takes an over the counter lactose chewable pill with every meal...

3. His pancreas is inflamed and doesn't make the right amount of enzymes that helps the body breakdown/digest food. He is taking a prescription for this before every meal as well...

We are thrilled to have a diagnosis and are thankful that they are relatively easy to "fix". Jonathan should outgrow these problems and we are looking forward to our break in drives to/from Columbia for a few months. We go back in February to evaluate how things are going unless we don't see more change before then. We truly PRAISE THE LORD for protecting Jonathan as we pushed to find answers, allowing him to thrive even though his body was not absorbing nutrients and essential vitamins. We have seen God's protection and confirmation as we questioned how strongly we needed to push the doctors and not take "he'll be fine" for an answer. We are thankful for the doctors that did push for further testing and the need for an answer... we have seen God work in all of this and to have a diagnosis is certainly a burden lifted from our shoulders. Thank you for praying and being concerned for our little man. We know God has great things planned for his (HEALTHY) life!!!

Endoscopy Success!

2009-10-27T11:49:00.000-07:00

Here is our little man, full of life and energy! Jon did great during his endoscopy last week. Thanks for praying! He was peaceful and well behaved during the 2 hour wait before his procedure. He could not eat or drink anything, so that was obviously the most difficult part. Children's Hospital (aka, "Bayler's hospital") in Columbia did an amazing job of keeping Jonathan happy and entertained. In addition to the staff, I was so thankful Dee Dee and Mimi were there to help! We will find out the results of the biopsy (of the small intestine & stomach) on Nov. 4th. However, we are happy to report that the pancreas medicine his on seems to be helping! Here are few more resent pictures of our little guy...

He was happy to pose for me, but when school picture day arrived, he told them all "NO" and refused to even sit in the chair!

Look at those cheeks! He doesn't look like a child who has spent months not absorbing nutrients, does he :)?!?

All things medical...

2009-10-12T16:47:00.000-07:00

I guess that is what my blog has turned into... something I update when life lends time to do so, which means I mostly just update on who has what appointment next! First things first is Jon. Our follow up appointment to the GI doctor was actually good. We saw the nurse practictioner this time and I really liked her better than the doctor. The short of it is, Jon doesn't have Celiac Decease or a zinc issue. They have determined that he is losing nutrients faster than his body can absorb them, which they believe may have something to do with the enzymes in his stomach/intestines or pancreas. So, we return for an endoscopy on the 22nd. Sadly, they will have to put him to sleep but the procedure is quick. We hope this is the case as you can simply add enzymes through supplements... meaning we are back to eating anything he wants except what he is allergic to! I never thought I would be so happy to ONLY have to cut out dairy, eggs, and peanuts!!! He is enjoying his couscous again :).

Bayler Bean is about to undergo some serious treatments that his doctors in Columbia and specialists from Sloan Kettering in NYC are working on together to offer him. Please keep him in your prayers! We have hope, but the last week has been difficult for his entire family.

Brittany and baby Oliver are still hanging in there... she will be 36 weeks next week and we hope to have an estimated arrival date sometime soon. She visits both her urologist and ob this week!

The rest of us have had our fair share of the flu/strep/tummy bugs, but hope to all be well soon. Then I can post about something other than doctor's visits and treatments! God is good and giving us strength daily... oh, and Wellspring is rocking!!! We LOVE what God is doing here in Myrtle Beach. Hope to post some of those pictures soon (must get them from Beth).

Pray for Bayler UPATED

2009-09-29T16:47:00.001-07:00

**Bayler is scheduled to have surgery Tuesday morning at 7:30am. The doctors will go in and remove the tumor and then we will wait 2 days for the results to know if the tumor is Neuroblastoma or something else. Here are some ways you can pray specifically, and of course you can check out his site as well...

*Comfort for Bayler and the rest of his family. He is brave, but we ask that you pray for a peace BEYOND UNDERSTANDING for Bayler! His family could use the same peace :).
*Wisdom for the doctors as they determine the next steps.
*Healing!!!

Jon-Jon has his follow-up appointment at the GI doctor Tuesday as well. Therefore, I will be in Columbia and hope to see Bayler following surgery. Pray we have answers as well on Tuesday.

Brittany is doing better, though she is still in a lot of pain. We were able to see her some this weekend and I must say, she is just the cutest little pregnant lady ever :)! She is resting a lot and we hope to meet a healthy Baby Oliver in about 4 more weeks!

Thank you for praying for my family. We are in a place in life that physical healing is a heavy burden. Thank you for sharing that burden with us and praising God, even in the storm!

ORIGINAL POST:
Here we are again... Bayler got some not great reports today after some scans. They found a tumor on his brain. They are unsure if it is alive or not, but a neurosurgeon is being called in and it looks like they will try to remove it as soon as possible. Please pray that the tumor is not alive and that he can be cancer free soon. We are so sad for this little fighter... however, we trust God will be glorified and Bayler will be healed. Thank you for your prayers!

*Since I have proven myself to be a slack blogger, please feel free to visit his caring bridge site (located on my side bar) and leave him a message!

Prayer

2009-09-22T12:15:00.000-07:00

*Updated* Brittany is home from the hospital. She and Matt opted not to do anything invasive that could possibly hurt Oliver. She will be working from home part time until she reaches a safe enough date to deliver Oliver, braving the pain with minimal meds. Modified bed rest will hopefully help and she can get some much needed rest for the next few weeks. I told her to sleep now... because when Oliver makes his appearance, she will be shocked at how tired she'll be :)! Thanks for your prayers!

And Bayler goes to clinic today... pray for good results!

If you follow me on twitter or facebook, you know I asked for prayer for my family yesterday. I didn't specifically mean just Jon, but we certainly needed prayer as well... here is an update on my little wild man and more prayer requests:

Jon-Jon saw the pediatric GI doctor in Columbia yesterday. I can't say that I was overly assured we are on a way to figuring out what is going on with him, however we ARE taking slow steps in the right direction. He had a complete blood panel taken to check for Celiac Disease, vitamin/mineral deficency, and a few other things. In the mean time (until our visit 2 weeks from now) we are trying probiotics again and this time I am keeping a complete food/stool diary to review on October 6th. He did mention toddler diaherria which sent my blood pressure raging... diapers like Jon's are NOT simply toddler diaherria. Especially when they have been this way for months and months. Anyway, I feel positive about the steps we are taking and hope we can have some answers soon!

Please pray for my sister, Brittany. She is 32 weeks pregnant with little Oliver and it turns out her right kidney is failing. She is having complications with testing and such because she doesn't want to harm the baby. They believe they can put a stint in to buy her some time so Oliver can "cook" a little more... however, she is in a lot of pain and is currently in the hospital so they can manage it and figure out the best options for her and little Ollie. I will keep you updated as I know more. The good news is she lives in Charleston so she has amazing doctors and if Oliver had to come early, his care would be top notch.

And we are always praying for our Bayler. Please continue to pray that the cancer stays away and he thrives as he tries to "get back to normal" soon!

Thank you for praying! We KNOW God is bigger than all of these things and He is in control. Truly comforting... and my life line during times like these!

*These are some pictures from the park yesterday before Jon's appointment. I am tired of seeing my little guy with puffy eyes every time I turn on the computer :).

Changes all around...

2009-08-28T17:09:00.000-07:00

Well, we have certainly been undergoing some changes around here. Wellspring changed locations and we are back at the movie theaters at Broadway at the Beach. We are excited about this move and what God is going to do at this location... pictures & stories to come soon.

More diet changes are underway as well. Jon is currently being further tested for a number of things related to his diet and tummy problems. He lives with bumps on his face (after he eats anything processed) and still has horrible diapers. His energy level is fine, however Trey and I are ready to know what is safe for him to eat and not eat. We are looking at the costs of going completely organic and cutting out all gluten, wheat, dairy, eggs, peanuts, and as many preservatives as possible. Our most recent scare happened this week when he seemed to have a reaction to a McDonald's hashbrown (contained milk):

(taken with my cell phone)

This was more than an hour after the reaction, trip to the doctor and medicine had been administered. In other words, he looked much worse when it first happened. Thankfully, his tongue didn't swell and his breathing was fine, but it is apparent he is not outgrowing his milk allergy. I am in full planning mode to figure out a diet he can enjoy and we can all eat. Next on my list of things to try is this...

Mark Engelberg’s Gluten-Free, Vegan Bread

Recipe for 2 loaves—it is okay to halve the recipe if you want to make just one

Note: If you are using a mixer that doesn’t have a great engine, you may want to mix it by hand at the end to ensure it’s all mixed. Since there’s no gluten to get tough from overmixing, you can mix until you’re confident.

In a large mixing bowl combine:

1 1/2 cups millet flour
1/2 cup teff flour
1 cup sorghum flour
1 cup cornstarch (or double the potato starch if you can’t eat corn)
1 cup potato starch
1 cup tapioca flour
4 tsp xanthan gum
1 Tbsp salt
1/2 cup sugar
2 Tbsp active dry yeast (not rapid rise)

Add:

4 tsp olive oil
3 1/4 cup warm water (not hot)

Mix with electric mixer–using paddle attachment, NOT regular beaters or bread hook–for two minutes. The bread dough will be more like cake batter than traditional bread dough.

Two options for the rising:

For the best rising: While mixing the bread, create a proofing box from your microwave. Microwave a small mug or ramekin with water until the water boils. Leave the water in the microwave. Pour the bread dough into two nonstick or well-greased pans. Tuck the loaves into the microwave with the water—the container of water should not be touching the pans. (I have to remove the turntable in my microwave to do this.) Allow to rise until batter extends a bit over the top of the pans–generally 30-50 minutes.

Standard method: Pour into two nonstick or well-greased loaf pans, place on a warm surface (such as on top of the pre-heated oven), and cover with a towel. Allow to rise until batter extends a bit over the top of the pan–generally 50-70 minutes. (Batter should take up about half the loaf pan before rising.)

Bake at 400 degrees for 10 minutes. Remove loaf pans from oven and cover with aluminum foil. Return to oven and bake for an additional 35-45 minutes, depending on your oven. (Insert a toothpick or knife into the center to see if it comes out clean or doughy, if you aren’t sure when you pull out the bread.)

As with most breads, it is easiest to slice if you allow it to fully cool. But who can wait that long? I usually let it cool for a little bit, and then remove the loaves from the pans and place them on a rack to cool more while I slice it up. The bread tastes delicious warm, dipped in olive oil and herbs or spread with honey and ghee. It also works well for sandwiches after it has cooled. If you won’t be eating it within 2 days, after it’s cooled, slice it, wrap it in a couple of layers of plastic wrap, and freeze it. Never refrigerate this or other bread—it will get dry and hard if you do. If you leave the bread on the counter (wrapped), it will be good for all purposes for a couple of days. After that, it will be best used for bread pudding, French toast, croutons, etc.

We'll see how it goes... Jon is quickly checking off more allergens he is not tolerating. He also can not wear "normal" diapers anymore. He seems to react to the chemicals and we are now purchasing Seventh Gener@tion brand and "simple" wipes.

We are up for the challenge and pray for Jon to be as healthy as possible very soon!

Cliff Notes

2009-08-18T12:30:00.000-07:00

So, here is the Cliff Notes version of our summer... we have been so busy with Wellspring, family, friends, some travel, birthdays, sickness, and surprises that updating the blog just hasn't happened. I know, I know... if anyone actually still checks this blog, it shouldn't come as a shock. The biggest news thus far is that Wellspring Church launches weekly preview services this Sunday and our official launch is September 13th!!! I honestly had no idea getting to this point would be so much work, but we are thrilled and can't wait to see what God is going to do in Myrtle Beach this fall! If you don't read my husbands blog or check our website often... I have to share that our location is absolutely incredible. We are at The Palace Theater in the heart of Myrtle Beach! God has shown us so much favor and we are thrilled to have such an incredible location to have services. I will post pictures of what our set up looks like when I remember to take my camera on a Sunday, ha. Now, for a glimpse of our family's fun summer:

We went to the zoo...

and had lots of beach time...

enjoyed sweet friends visiting from TX...
(Jake and Anne)

(Mary, Will, and Baby Coker on the way!!!)

turned the big FOUR!!!

did lots of swimming...

helped Aunt B and Uncle Matt get ready for baby Oliver...

played lots of baseball...

had sleepovers with cousins...

shared hugs...

our summer gave us lots to smile about!!!

*More birthday, beach, and family pictures to come!!!

We're expecting...kind of...

2009-07-20T14:08:00.000-07:00

Didn't want to fool you guys again :)! My friend Beth had an awesome idea for gathering some stuff we need for our children's area for Wellspring. We currently have just a few things we unpack for the kids each week, but are excited to step it up soon. She said it better than I could, so I will let you read her post to get the details...

We are opening our doors and launching on September 13th! There are a LOT of things that we will need before the BIG DAY and we need items for our nursery and childrens' ministry! So we thought we would register and that it would be a great way to get the word out and let everyone know of our needs.

We know times are hard for everyone financially so if you have not been able to donate to Wellspring maybe this would be a way that you can. Even if you want to get 4 of your friends to go in together to buy a gift that would be great! Anything you can give will help us provide a fun place to minister to the children that attend Wellspring Church!

Also, please don't feel like you are limited to these lists. If you find something at a discount store or a yard sale that is in good shape please know that would be wonderful too! If you live out of state and need to mail the items, email Beth at bethgoff@ymail.com for the shipping address.

We desire to have a very child friendly, home-like feel to our childrens' area and want it to the a place babies, toddler, and kids will want to come back to week after week... YOU can make that happen!!

I really hope that you will take a look at our Target or Babies R Us registry and choose and item or two that you can donate to Wellspring Church! Gift cards to Target and Babies R Us would be wonderful too if you don't want to pay for shipping of an item.

**When searching the LAST NAME and FIRST NAME are "Wellspring".**

Also, TELL YOUR FRIENDS!!

Tell those close to you about our church and what we are doing and see if they might want to donate as well! I cannot tell you how many times we have received support from people we don't even know BUT someone told them about us and God led them to give. So PLEASE tell those you know!!! You could send them a link to this blog by email, on twitter, post it on Facebook or do a blog post on YOUR BLOG.

We hope to have all items gathered by August 28th if possible.

Thank you for your continued prayers and support!

We are very busy and have been working hard to minister to our community. Thanks again for all of your prayers and I hope to begin blogging again soon... we've had an amazing summer and I can't wait to share pictures!

Thanks!

2009-06-22T10:28:00.000-07:00

Thank you all so much for your encouragement and suggestions! I am happy to report that eliminating soy and greatly limiting wheat/gluten has made for some better days around here. I am going to follow up with a new pediatric allergist and push for some blood tests to see exactly what we are dealing with as far as diet is concerned. Also, I plan to start posting some recipes to share on here with all of you fellow allergy mamas. I am getting some great ideas from my new friend, Gwen. For now, we are just happy that these two...

are back together and we are enjoying lots of time with visiting friends and family! Summers in MB are so much fun!!!

Food Allergies

2009-06-16T17:57:00.000-07:00

So, as most of you know Jonathan has been tested for and declared allergic to dairy, eggs, and peanuts. This allergy road is not exactly fun and can be lonely at times. After recent email chats with Head Lima Bean and her son's latest symptoms, I thought I'd give a little back ground on how we ended up here and what is next...

How did we know Jon had food allergies?
Jon had eczema from the beginning (or at least after a week or two of age). I knew it was possible that he would have some kind of intolerance to diary due to the degree that his eczema persisted. At the age of 4 months, I tried cereal with a touch of milk based formula mixed in. Jon's entire mouth was covered in red splotches and bumps. I knew then that I had to cut out all dairy from my diet and we switched him over to soy formula if we supplemented. His eczema lessened greatly and we moved forward with eliminating all dairy from his diet. At the age of 10 months he accidently ate egg off the floor (don't ask!) and he was covered in hives within minutes. So we added eggs to the list, but were advised by my pediatrician to wait until one year of age to do any testing. At one, Jon was skin tested and we added peanuts to the list. We are armed with an epi-pen and benadryl at all times. However, Jon does not seem to have a deathly reaction to any of the above items. He does not break out if he touches the products, nor has he ever had an episode where he stopped breathing.

What does he eat?
Jon is basically a vegan. He won't eat meat by choice, he can't eat eggs, dairy, or peanuts, therefore we feed him what we can... his daily diet consists of:
wheatberries & honey
cheerios
soy milk
any fruit... he loves fruit!
couscous with added veggies
organic spaghetti with added veggies
applesauce
toast with honey
vegan pancakes
tortillas
yeah... not a great diet.

So we add supplements:
whole food vitamins (2x's a day)
rice protein to his soy milk
flaxseed to his couscous and spaghetti

Does this help Jon and is he completely "allergy free"?
Well, honestly I thought he was... but skin tests are not conclusive so I am afraid we might be adding more to the list of allergens. Jon has been suffering from chronic diarrhea off and on for many months. Yes, his diet is high in fiber, but I cut out a lot of the fiber for weeks at a time, including limiting his sugar even more so and it doesn't subside. I've been told it is everything from simple toddler diarrhea to needing to see a specialist in Charleston. Also, his eczema is starting to flare again. I've done enough research to know that he doesn't take in any probiotics from his diet. We add those in as well with special "non-diary" probiotic supplements. However, they don't seem to be working. We cloth diaper at home to help with the rashes that accompany the diarrhea but I know it is an internal problem, not an external one.

So what is next?
Soy. We are going to see if switching to almond and/or rice milk and eliminating as much soy as possible from his diet will work. I've been doing a lot of research on soy and you can read one great article here. I've found I have to be careful as the internet is full of "articles" that contradict one another. So, we are trying new things and hoping one will work!

I welcome advice or suggestions if any of my readers have children with allergies. I would love recipes that your allergic children enjoy. The hardest part now is that he is a hungry toddler who is picky... that and I MISS cheese desperately :)!!!

Jonathan 18 months

2009-06-16T16:11:00.000-07:00

I know parents say it all the time, but where does the time go?!? Jon-Jon is already 18 months old and is quite the wild man :)! I guess most 18 month olds can be described this way, but Jon certainly has a lot of, ahem, PASSION. Like his brother, he knows what he wants and you can't change his mind easily or distract him either. Only, Jon responds with a full fit if you don't understand or the answer is no... we're working on it and he has already gotten better since he can say a few more words. And, while he is passionate about his thoughts he also loves deeply... he cuddles, hugs, kisses, and laughs with abandonment. He reminds me daily that God sent his Son so that we may have life to the fullest. Jon lives that way already. What a joy! Here are some 18 month stats:

Words: mama, dada, david, most other immediate family, crackers, drink, snack, truck, duck, banana, apple, dog, where is it?, no, trash, spiderman, batman, Jesus, help, stuck, potty... I'm sure there are more but I can't think of it all right now.
Favorite foods: bananas, crackers, couscous, apples, pears, spaghetti, vegan pancakes
Favorite books: any Wiggles (ugh.), Goodnight Moon, Colors, Farm Animals, Baseball ABC/123
Favorite movie: any Wiggles (ugh again.)
Favorite activities: whatever David is doing, block, beach (jumping waves/digging in the sand/chasing birds), slides, jump houses.
Potty Training: Yes... he seems to show signs of being ready. He asks to go and points to his diaper when it is dirty. He wants to be just like David so I'm guessing this plus the fact that we do some cloth diapering has helped. Only problem... I don't know how to teach a kid this young!!! Suggestions are welcomed!

A few more...
He only likes to sit on the stools like a big boy.

He loves to play outside, including wagon rides and watching neighbors walk their dogs. He LOVES dogs!

He sleeps like this... his yellow "night, night", a paci, and his feet tucked under. He loves to bring you his blanket and cuddle any time of day!

This was taken on his last day of school. Due to his birthdate he will be in the 1's class again next year... he is excited to not be the baby of the class, but instead one of the oldest!

*I am preparing an allergy post soon... we are still eliminating dairy, eggs, and peanuts from his diet. However, he still has bad issues with diarrhea and his eczema has been flaring up again so it's back to the drawing board. I have a whole list of this part of Jon's world to share!

Just funny...

2009-06-16T10:23:00.000-07:00

(This picture was taken a few weeks ago... Jon is laughing, not choking... promise!)

So, last night I was reading a book to Jon-Jon. David is away with family and Jon is enjoying all of his extra reading time, he truly loves books. The book I was reading was a counting book and at the end it reviews all the numbers in order. Well, I started counting "1, 2..." and Jon goes "DAVID!!!" really loud. I guess the poor baby had never heard me count other than to warn his brother he was about to be in big trouble :)! What a funny guy.

Spring Break Revisited, Part 2

2009-06-05T18:53:00.000-07:00

I believe the second leg of our spring break tour was to my parents (aka, Daddy T and Dee Dee) house in Bishopville. We had a blast hugging cousins, trying to take a picture of all 4 boys, having sleepovers...

... dying Easter eggs with Dee Dee (David's first time!), playing with cousins, eating lots of yummy food...

... hunting above Easter eggs, seeing Uncle Rob and Aunt Risha, swinging on the front porch, reading books...

(skip to the next picture, blogger would only let me download 3 pics at a time.)

2009-06-05T18:28:00.000-07:00

... we road the "4 wheeler", jumped on the trampoline, blew bubbles, played in the fountain...

... attempted more group pictures with 4 wild boys, played baseball with Daddy T, got really, really dirty...

... and hugged our cousins some more! Thank you Daddy T and Dee Dee for letting us come visit. The boys and I always have fun exploring in the country!

Spring Break Revisited, Part 1

2009-06-05T18:17:00.000-07:00

IF I remember correctly, we spent the first part of spring break at Mimi's house. We read books, shared beds (Mimi & David), played ball in the yard...

... had tickle fights with Boo Boo (Trey's aunt), blew bubbles, stayed up late...

... visited EdVenture (one of our favorites!), froze to death at the zoo, saw Amanda, Aaron, and Sarah (but missed a picture with everyone!), and had tears when we left. Thanks, Mimi! We always have fun in Columbia doing special things with you!

We went to the dentist...

2009-06-05T18:04:00.000-07:00

... over spring break! Yeah, I could stand to update some of the things we've been doing!

First David helped with my check up. He was very interested and helped count my teeth!

Then he hopped right in the chair for his turn!

Thanks Dee Dee, Dr. Bramlett, and the rest of the office (for baby sitting Jon while we had our appointment)! David LOVED going to the dentist. Since this was his first visit I would call it successful. No cavities and he had a blast!

2 p.m. Yesterday.

2009-06-04T14:36:00.000-07:00

The UPS man was being stalked by our 3 year old as he waited for these...

he was very happy when they arrived!

David picked these shoes out himself. He has an opinion about his clothes and sicks to his style! The only problem... he prefers jeans and it is so hot here. We will spend the morning at the ocean and he returns to put on long pants. Oh well... he'll learn. One day.

8 things...

2009-06-04T12:13:00.001-07:00

... and thanks to Kelli Jones for getting me back on the blogging train by tagging me to do this :)! Summer is here and I truly plan to update this thing more often. Since moving back closer to family that we see often, YEAH!, I have not been very faithful with posting. That, plus the fact that I'm not sure what the point of my blog has become, leads me to avoid it. So, today I am posting and we'll see what happens tomorrow!

8 Things I'm Looking Forward To:
1. Wellspring Church launch this fall!!!
2. My new nephew, Oliver (Brittany is having a boy :)!)
3. The rest of the summer... beach days, pool days, grilling, etc.
4. God On Tap (see www.wellspringchurch.tv for more details)
5. A kid-free weekend with just my hubby!
6. Bayler finishing his treatments and being in remission!
7. Texas friends coming to visit for the summer!
8. More of what God is doing in Myrtle Beach!

8 Things I Did Yesterday:
1. Playdate with friends at Broadway at the Beach.
2. Fed ducks our Cheerios stash.
3. Ate Uno's pizza.
4. Changed diapers.
5. Cookout at neighbor's house.
6. Sidewalk chalk.
7. Watched Wipeout with David, he thinks the show is so funny!
8. Cuddled with my hubby.

8 Things I Wish I Could Do:
1. Cure cancer!!!
2. Remember EVERYTHING!
3. Fly (David would think I was the coolest mom ever :)!)
4. Keep my house clean.
5. Live close to my friends that are far away, while still living here.
6. What God wants me to do every second of the day.
7. Sing.
8. Potty train Jon-Jon overnight.

8 Shows I Watch:
Hmmm, I don't watch this many shows, but I'll list the ones I do watch.
1. The Office
2. Jon and Kate plus 8
3. Clean House
4. Wipeout (with David)
5. Lie To Me
6. Whatever Trey is watching...

I'm not sure 8 people even check this blog anymore, so I hereby tag you if you read this and want to participate!!!

I give up!

2009-05-14T17:30:00.000-07:00

I have been trying all night (well actually the past few days!) to load some pictures from EASTER!!! I know I am so far behind... but Blogger is being stubborn and I am tired, so I am just going to leave you with a picture of this precious, fit throwing, charming, passionate, often sick (yes, again!), sweet, cuddly, amazing little boy...

He is no longer a baby and lets me know everyday...

He will not sit in the high chair, only the bar stool will do.

He looks us square in the eye and shakes his head no.

I get this sentence often at school "but he's so darn cute!'' Translated: he gets away with a lot!

Unclear words are common, but you always understand when he says "David" and "Jesus".

We are so in love!

Question

2009-04-24T19:15:00.001-07:00

How does this little baby...
(David 9 months old)

Become this little man...
(David 3 1/2 years old)

So quickly?!?

He is a joy and we love him to pieces!!!

*I am working on Easter pics and such. Life is in a certain busy season and it doesn't help that we now live in a vacation spot... the beach is so fun and provides much outdoor time! We are enjoying our family time and seeing lives changed through Wellspring.

Thought you'd like to see...

2009-04-20T11:02:00.000-07:00

... a picture of my new niece or nephew!!! Ha, bet I fooled a few of you :)! I am so excited for my little sister, Brittany, and her hubby Matt, they are expecting this cute little peanut on November 16th! Now, the waiting begins... will they complete the "back-ets ball" (as David would say) team that my dad has his hopes up for? Or will this precious baby be the first little girl? Either way, we are so happy that God has blessed them and will be praying for a healthy baby!

I love him...

2009-04-12T11:39:00.001-07:00

and happy to say "Happy Anniversary" to my sweet husband of 6 years! We were talking the other night and we both said in some ways we can't believe we've been married for 6 years and in other ways we can... since we have 2 active little boys, sure it feels like we've been married for a while but the part that I am amazed by is that I TRULY love Trey more everyday. This past year has stretched us, molded us, allowed us to see each other in another "phase" of God's plan for us and I can say I have never been more in love with Trey. God's calling on his life is real, he is devoted to it, and I count it a blessing to be a part of it all! We just had an amazing day at Wellspring Church and I am thrilled to see what God will continue to do through my wonderful husband. Thank you for loving me and for giving me 6 incredible years of marriage!

Preacher's Wife

2009-04-02T18:35:00.000-07:00

So, I am VERY new to this roll of being a "Preacher's Wife". I LOVE it and signed up for it when I married my incredible husband. And, like most things in life, I figured I'd have it all figured out by the time God placed us where we were suppose to be in a church. HA! I never knew we would be "church planters" (read: starting a new church from scratch, just the 2 of us). I never knew how incredible it would be to see my husband connect with Christ in such a real way that He actually gave Trey a vision for a church specifically designed for Myrtle Beach, SC. I never knew really cool people would move from across the country to partner with us, supporting a vision they know God designed. I never knew we would see lives changed in our living room on Sunday mornings as we build our launch team. Because it is ALL more than I could have ever hoped or imagined!!! As we approach Easter, we are experiencing something else I never knew, but am finding is common with those involved in ministry. You can read all about if from a GREAT "Preacher's Wife", Holly Furtick. Really, her blog is wonderful so read it...

I want to encourage you, if you are involved in a church somewhere, PRAY for your pastors and leaders. If you are in the ministry, PRAY for protection and soak up time with God. We are seeing God do amazing things here on the Grand Strand and are running full force into this upcoming season with our dukes up!

David

2009-03-25T13:04:00.000-07:00

Can I tell you how BLESSED we are to be the parents of this little man?!? David is by no means perfect, but he is growing up so much and seems to have come out of a rough spot in regards to discipline, complaining, and obeying. Although all the trials were typical, he is in an amazing place right now. He tries so hard to obey us, is patient and generous to his brother, thinks of others, and is just geniunely a fun person to be around. I wanted to document a few "David stories" that I wouldn't want to forget in the future:

*He is very auditory. He can hear songs on the radio and attempt to guess the artist if it is someone he listens to often. Also, he knows almost all his letter sounds. The funny thing about that is that I rarely work on it at home and he identifies the letters by the sound that it makes as opposed to the actual name of the letter. He makes voice connections as well, a few weeks after he saw School of Rock he came downstairs one morning and said that he knew the guy on that movie sounded just like Kung Fu Panda. What a funny thought at 7 am!
*When I ask David to do something he sometimes whines about it, but for the most part he will think through his response and smile with the following statements: "I certainly will!" or "sure, mom!". Cutie!
*He loves, loves, loves, Jonathan. They have begun to argue over toys occasionally, but that is only when David doesn't turn something immediately over to Jon. He usually shares with his brother, is the first one in the room when Jon wakes up, and tickles him with kisses every morning!
*David is still the entertainer at school (see previous post about his performance of Macho Man during class).
*David LOVES having Wellspring meet at his house every other week. He knows his days of the week so he counts down to when his friends come to play and when "daddy talks to all the other people downstairs" :)!
*He can navigate the computer very well and loves Starfall.
*He loves to rock out to One Way Jesus (by Hillsong) and is still a big fan of The Killers, Jack Johnson, and The Rolling Stones.
*He eats and eats and eats... some days I can't seem to get the kid full! He doesn't eat as healthy as his brother but man does he eat! His favorites right now are eggs, turkey bacon, vegan pancakes, chocolate chip cookies, homemade pizza, and popcorn for a treat.
*He loves to cook with me and we make pancakes together almost every weekend!
*He memorizes scripture easily and I really think that learning God's word has helped him control some of the earlier mentioned behavior.
*He still has the most joyful laugh!
We love him

so very

MUCH!

Is it Monday Tuesday already?

2009-03-22T18:46:00.000-07:00

* I hesitated to post this, however I had it ready and want to link you over to MckMama's blog. Her infant son Stellan is very sick and in need of lots of prayer! Please remember him when you spend time with God this week.*

I did not spend my week attempting to ~~get ahead~~ catch up on all things house related. However, I sit here on Sunday night and still feel like I have a to do list that is a mile long...

I did not have the first experience of giving David discipline (a spanking) and then him look at me and candidly say "But that didn't hurt!"... let's just say that from now on his pants will be around his ankles when he gets discipline, public setting or not!

And since we are on the subject of my wonderful 3 year old, David's teacher did not pull me over in car line to share a story with me from their day... apparently David knows the words to Macho Man and serenaded his entire class while doing his table work. His teacher said he sang as if no one else was even in the room!

I did not take Jonathan to get his hair cut and almost CRY when the sweet lady was finished... I specifically told her NOT to cut it blunt across the front and she obviously ~~listened intently~~ ignored me!

My boys were not covered in yellow/green pollen when we returned from our afternoon outside play time... and the pollen does not leave Trey and I feeling like we have been hit by a sinus infection 24/7.

When we visited the local indoor jump place with some friends, I did not allow Jonathan to go down the biggest slide all by himself once he showed me he could actually climb to the top of said slide alone...

and I also did not have just as much fun as the boys joining them on the slides Jonathan couldn't climb. By the way, David just started going inside jumpy things like these... but Jonathan is a crazy kid! He LOVES it!

Happy Monday to my blog readers... all 10 8 of you :)!

I'll give it a try...

2009-03-14T05:14:00.000-07:00

In an effort to get me back in the habit of blogging, I thought I'd get on board with one of my favorite blogs and take part in MckMama's Not Me Monday! She claims it is free therapy and I get to remind myself that God's mercies are new everyday and I am thankful for His grace!!! It is pretty simple, everything I list is stuff that I did not do (said sarcastically!) this past week and would never, ever do again and again...

I most certainly did not allow Jonathan to eat Cheerios off the edge of a chair for breakfast because he threw a ~~raging~~ small fit to not sit down due to a little diaper rash he has. Then, I did not stand by with my camera just taking pictures of him dropping said Cheerios on the floor, mixing them with last nights stash that I did not sweep up off the floor. That would never happen in my ~~always~~ sometimes clean home!

I do not allow my boys to rough house until one of them gets slightly hurt just so they will learn how far they can go. Who would do that?!? (Hope, notice the tent? They LOVE it and have since that first Christmas!!!)

I would never allow my 3 year old, David, to "go commando" when ever he wants at home, just because he likes it! That would teach him things his future wife would hate me for :)!

Jonathan did not get at least 4 morning baths this week... and by morning I mean early, before school kind of baths that are completely necessary due to what I found when I went to wake him! Hence the diaper rash...

I most certainly did not spend quality time with my boys this week teaching them to do laundry. Jonathan did not get resourceful and find a stool so that he could better reach the washing machine to help throw in all the clothes. Who teaches a baby and preschooler to do laundry?!?

I am not admitting here on my blog that I am 100% addicted to sweet tea! I do not crave it with every meal and would never strap my kids in their car seats to drive through Zaxby's, order a large sweet tea, and proceed to drive around while drinking that sugary concoction in peace!

Wellspringchurch.tv

2009-03-10T10:36:00.000-07:00

Yep... you need to go to this site! Our church website is finally up... we are so excited! Please tell everyone you know to take a look around and if you live in the Myrtle Beach area we hope you'll check us out soon!

Awesome...

2009-03-01T19:05:00.000-08:00

sums up the day at Wellspring! God is so good and we are humbled to be a part of what is happening in Myrtle Beach. Check out Trey's Sunday Thoughts on his blog. Amazing!

We're back...

2009-02-23T10:42:00.001-08:00

Trey, TJ and I had a great time in Texas attending the Creative Church Conference at Fellowship Church. We heard some amazing speakers, had time to visit a few friends (though I could have spent more time doing this!!!), and concentrated on really learning and listening to God about the next steps for Wellspring Church. We really enjoyed our time with the staff of Keystone and are thankful for the Bohannan's offering their home as a hotel to help us save some money. I also turned the big 3-1 while we were in TX and enjoyed the day with some amazing girlfriends (breakfast, lunch, and an afternoon tea!) and dinner with Jake and Anne. We missed these two...

(Yes, David has an ipod. It is Trey's old one and he LOVES it! We made him a mix of his favorite songs and he asks to listen almost daily.)

but were happy to have a parenting break, and they both enjoyed some grandparent time. Now I am trying to get back into the swing of things... this weekend is a big one for Wellspring. If you live in the Myrtle Beach area and want to know more email Trey!

Bayler is doing well, though his treatment is starting back up full force this week. Check out his site on my sidebar for more info. As always we covet your prayers! **I just checked Bayler Bean's site and they are having a prayer service for Bayler's family at 7:00 pm tonight (that's 6pm for all you central standard time prayer warriors!). Please be in prayer for the entire family (Rob, Risha, Bayler, and Bridges) and that God will guide them and give them peace during this next step of treatment.
Again, we thank you so much for your prayers!

2009-02-16T07:20:00.001-08:00

We leave for Texas tomorrow. Jonathan is throwing up. It always happens...

*Update: Jonathan is feeling a little better. I took him to Dr. Harris today just to get him checked out and to express my concerns about him always having some sort of illness. It's hard with his allergies to make sure he is getting all the nutrients his little body needs. He constantly has tummy issues, throws up randomly, and his nose runs none stop. So, we are trying some allergy medicine and being referred to a GI doctor for some further tests concerning his stomach problems. We would love for you to add Jonathan to your prayer lists. Although the doctor isn't too concerned, we are just praying that Jonathan will get better soon and someone can find out what is wrong.

We are still leaving to go to Texas tomorrow. We will be attending the C3 conference at Fellowship Church... and hanging with our peeps at Keystone a little too! We are so excited! I don't think I'll know what to do with myself on the plane. I am already trying to decide what to read?!? Pics to follow when we return...

A Little Silliness

2009-02-15T14:41:00.000-08:00

Hey all, this is Trey with a rare post on Dani's blog. David and I shot this little video yesterday and Dani thought you guys might enjoy it.

We'll hopefully be able to add more videos of the boys soon.

Until then . . . enjoy!

David and Daddy from Trey Kelly on Vimeo.

A littler warmer...

2009-02-07T17:21:00.000-08:00

It was a little warmer today, so after the boys returned from their overnight stay with Daddy T, DeeDee, and Bridges (thanks SO MUCH mom and dad!!!) we played outside in the sunshine! I simply can't seem to get a picture of both boys looking at the camera these days!

Jonathan LOVES to be outside, just like his big brother. I LOVE that he finds running after his brother entertaining! He will chase David around all day.

Oh, how I love this little man! He has been really testing our limits lately, but at the same time I stand in wonder at how much he is growing up! Needless to say, David missed the terrible 2's and gives 3 a new name... terrifying!

Jon on the run... he fell a few minutes after I shot this and got a nice looking bruise on his head... have I mentioned that he is dramatic?!? He screams like a maniac when he gets hurt!

Playing hard! I'm ready for spring and so are these 2 amazing boys! *And, no, I don't think it was warm enough for shorts but we are choosing our battles these days. I certainly think David will love growing up in the warm sunshine of MB... he HATES pant, long sleeves, coats, and socks!

Big boy

2009-02-03T18:54:00.000-08:00

Just didn't want this photo to slip between the cracks... he is growing so fast! He is a sweet, cuddly, teething, brother loving, 14 month old that we can't get enough of. While he is changing so much, our life is wonderfully busy. God is moving here in MB in ways we never imagined. We are thankful, humbled, and waiting to see what else is in store. December post coming soon. Promise.

Update

2009-01-19T12:49:00.000-08:00

Bayler is out of surgery and in ICU right now. The surgery went well and from what I understand the doctors were able to remove the tumor from his stomach and also part of his liver. There are still some cancer cells remaining, but the hope is that his treatment plan will take care of what they couldn't remove. That is all I know right now... thank you again for your prayers. We love you Bayler Bean and can't wait until God completely heals you!!!

Pray for Bayler

2009-01-19T07:08:00.000-08:00

As I type, Bayler is in surgery to remove his tumors. He has completed 6 rounds of chemo so far and this is a major step in getting him well. Please pray for him today! Pray the doctors are pleased with what they see... he has been so strong during this entire process so far and I am blown away at the strength he shows in day to day life. God is good and we trust Bayler to Him. Thank you for your prayers!

Still here...

2009-01-10T17:41:00.000-08:00

We're still here, I just haven't had a chance to blog lately... actually, I haven't had time to upload pictures to make a decent post about our amazing holidays! A list of daily things that keep me from posting include:

Jonathan is walking, climbing, wandering everywhere!

We are making drastic changes to our diet due to J's recent allergy results, therefore I am in the kitchen A LOT more.

David is giving "oh, he's 3" a whole new meaning!

Laundry for 4, need I say more?

School/routine

De-cluttering from the holidays... I just keep saying "one closet at a time".

I don't have a laptop, therefore I must sit at the computer table. My boys don't like that a whole lot.

Reading blogs instead for posting on mine gives me great ideas and makes me wonder what direction mine should go in the future.

Trey is just fun to be with!

*I hope to post soon... keep checking back with us. Aside from sustaining our family and giving us a blessed new year, God is doing amazing things at Wellspring too. You can read more about it by checking out Trey's blog!

Happy Birthday Trey!

2008-12-30T16:58:00.000-08:00

Today my wonderful husband turns 29... yes, I married a younger man. I thought I'd do a quick list of 29 things that I love about Trey. They are in no particular order, I just typed as they came to me.

1. His laugh
2. He loves the Lord
3. He is smart
4. He is HOT!
5. His eyes
6. He is an amazing dad
7. He truly loves me
8. He is great with finances
9. He is devoted
10. He is getting healthy
11. He works very hard
12. He takes care of me
13. He is a great kisser
14. He loves SEC football
15. He likes to read/collect books
16. He is great with technology
17. He is an amazing teacher/communicator
18. He is a pastor
19. He does dishes
20. He is dedicated to God's calling on his life
21. He leads our family
22. He loves sushi
23. He loves good music
24. He teaches our boys
25. He is honest
26. He loves me unconditionally
27. He listens
28. He sings in the shower
29. He is my very best friend!

Honestly, this list took about 2 minutes to make so I'm sure I could do a top 100 in no time. Trey, you are an amazing husband and father. I consider myself blessed to be your wife and I fall more in love with you everyday. Thank you for being you and always striving to seek what God has planned for our life together. Hope you have a happy 29th birthday, I love you so much!!!

The results are in...

2008-12-22T19:49:00.000-08:00

Jonathan had an appointment with an allergist today. I'm not really sure if I thought all that much about it until I was in the room and started asking questions... I already knew he couldn't eat dairy, and was pretty sure I could add egg to the list. Unfortunately, we can also add peanuts. We are armed with an epi-pen since we aren't sure how severe the peanut allergy could be. Thankfully we have seen children with much worse reactions do just fine in day to day life and I know I can call on those friends for help if needed! I think I was a little sad today as we entered this new world of unknowns with Jonathan, but I also feel a peace. God is protecting Jon and guiding us as parents, allergies or no allergies. God is bigger than this and He is in control of Jon's life. We are educating ourselves as much as possible on how to handle reactions and, most importantly, how to prevent them (thanks to Ellie, I've known how to read labels and administer an epi-pen for years!). We do ask for your prayers of protection for Jonathan as we educate those who share this wonderful, crazy life with us! It's another new normal...

HE DID IT!!!

2008-12-12T19:28:00.000-08:00

O.K. So in my earlier post on "Getting to know David, age 3", I failed to mention that he STILL slept with his "my". For those who don't know that is what he called his beloved paci. Yes, we still allowed him to go to sleep with the thing! See, for the past 3 years of his life, David would ASK to go to bed so he could have his "my". I think we were all attached to it! Well, we decided that he needed to once and for all get rid of the "my". So, when David's elf, Zee, began visiting our house he surprised us with a letter from Santa *grin*. He asked for the paci so he could take it to a baby reindeer at the North Pole. Though there were lots of tears and prayers to be brave, David gave Zee his "my" and tearfully went to sleep. It has been 3 nights and I think we might all actually make it through... he has been up earlier than usual, but for the most part it has gone smoothly. We have been very busy and I plan to keep it that way for the next few days. We have tons of projects we are working on and lots of gifts to wrap, and David is my constant little helper! Santa also sent a few of his gifts early, so he has been distracted. I am so proud of him... we are the ones at fault for letting him keep it for so long. He was very brave to give it up!

Zee and the special letter from Santa!

Goodbye, MY!

Aunt B and Uncle Matt get MARRIED!

2008-12-12T18:38:00.000-08:00

Last weekend, my sister Brittany was married. We had a wonderful time and Brittany was one of the most beautiful brides I have ever seen! They make such a cute couple! We were very busy... each of our little family of 4 had a job. Trey performed the ceremony (which was amazing), I was the matron of honor (and forgot the ring!), David was a bell ringer, and Jon rode in a special white wagon to announce the bride with his cousins and brother. Therefore, I did not get to take many pictures. I even stole a few of these from my sweet cousin Hope (thanks!). Maybe I'll be able to post some of the ones the photographer took when Brittany and Matt get them.

Bayler walked Aunt B down the aisle with my dad... It was very sweet!

Me and my baby sister before the wedding. Isn't she beautiful?!?

Me and 2 out of 3 of my boys!

Just a little of the great family members we were able to hang out with at the reception. We had a wonderful weekend and can't wait to see Brittany and Matt soon. They are on their honeymoon in St. Lucia! We love you both!

Jonathan's first birthday!

2008-12-10T18:55:00.001-08:00

Jon had a wonderful first birthday. Since it was the day before Thanksgiving, we traveled to Bishopville to be with my family. Here are a few shots of our dramatic little one...

This is pretty much what he thought about the singing and candle...

I believe he is thinking "Dee Dee and Daddy T, would you please rescue me!"

Of course big brother blew out the candle for our 1 year old!!!

Dee Dee and Bayler decorated everything for our Jon Jon! He loved the balloons. Bayler couldn't be there due to Jonathan recovering from sickness, but we enjoyed seeing Aunt B, Uncle Matt, Uncle Rob, Aunt Risha, and Bridges. Thanks you guys for making Jon's birthday so special!

Jonathan's first year!

2008-12-10T17:24:00.000-08:00

I can't believe this little baby has turned into my big one year old!!! We are over the moon in love with you, Jon! Your personality is captivating and you are our little charmer. You flirt with everyone you meet and tilt your head to the side as if to say "yeah, you want to say hi to me!". You point to everything and are talking in your own language... a language that David thinks he understands! He will translate for you if I don't respond when you are babbling. David loves you so much and you are in awe of him as well! You guys tackle each other often and like throwing stuffed animals at one another. When you are not playing with David you like to read books. You will sit with a book and turn the pages while talking out loud. You love reading bedtime stories with me as well. You have always had a very dramatic personality and as you grow, the drama is increasing! If we tell you "no" or take something away, you will crumble to the floor in a heap and cry as if we just ended your life! You are passionate and we love that about you. You love to eat, though you are limited due to a number of allergies. You sleep well at night and would still like to have 2 naps a day, but most of the time you only get 1 because you won't sleep at school. You LOVE to dance and like it when we are watching you do so! You are amazing, wild, happy, and dramatic. We pray God continues to be glorified through your little life and that we see His hand in who you are becoming!!!

Other fun stats at age one:

Weight: 24 lbs. (75 %)
Height: 32 inches (90 %)
Head: Can't remember, but know it was over 95 %
Favorite book: Tractors, Goodnight Moon, The Wiggles, 5 Little Ladybugs
Favorite food: Crackers, carrots, Soy milk, popsicles
Favorite toy: anything David is holding, Little People Nativity, Sit and Spin Horse, blocks, balls
Lovies? YES! A yellow blanket and a paci (see below)
TV? No interest at all!
Car rides? HATES them... and we travel by car a lot now!
Allergies? Dairy, Eggs, Strawberries... that we know of for now.
Walking? Nope, he can but he would rather crawl!
Climber? You bet!
Cuddles? He is so loving and will give hugs all day long!

Here are some of my favorite pics over the year:

Isn't he...

2008-12-04T19:20:00.000-08:00

just about the cutest thing you've ever seen :)? I had big plans for a post about this little guys first year of life, but we are happily busy right now. Aunt B (my sister, Brittany) is getting married Saturday and we are all getting ready for the big day. I will post pictures and share all the posts that I need to catch up on when we return!

*Mimi and Boo Boo, I tried to add the pictures of the boys on their toy and in their pj's but blogger is being stubborn... I'll try again soon!

One year ago today...

2008-11-25T20:22:00.001-08:00

I was pacing the floor at 4 am. I thought I could be experiencing early labor, but I wasn't really sure. My due date was December 4th, but I knew I wouldn't make it another week. I had an appointment that morning to see Dr.Mendez at 8:30. If I was far enough along he would keep me and we'd finally get to meet our sweet new baby boy!

When I arrived at the doctor's office, I was at 5 cm... who knew?!? They sent me over to the labor/delivery floor and then I realized I made a HUGE mistake. Apparently with David I had pre-registered. Well, I guess I didn't think about it this time and it took FOREVER to get my paperwork completed, therefore it took a long time to get my epidural. I think I was already at 6cm when I got the wonder medicine! Trey CLAIMS I asked everyone, from the janitor to the intern, if they could administer an epidural. I think he was a little embarrased! After the pain meds kicked in the rest was smooth sailing. I slept a little and then it was time to push. Less than 5 minutes later, at 4:03 pm our 8 lbs, 9 oz. baby boy was here!
We couldn't believe how big you were and I noticed you cried right away. You had dark brown eyes from the beginning and they have only gotten darker as you've grown. Your hands were and still are huge and you had the broadest shoulders. We were just so thrilled you were here and healthy. To God be the glory!
Oh, it is truly amazing that you love someone so much, so quickly! I think my first words after you were born were "I DO love you as much as David"... and I hadn't even held you yet! I remember your sweet smell after your bath and how long your fingernails were. You nursed like a champ right away and were so cuddly, even though you were a newborn.

Daddy was just as excited as I was. He had been a little nervous with David as a newborn, but he hardly waited until they had you all wrapped up before he held you. We were so happy to have you in our arms!

We had an amazing first night. We had tons of visitors and even a little "party" with Jake, Anne, Dianne, and David. Our friends are so precious! I will never forget sharing that important day with them and how special they made us feel... we love and miss you guys so much!!!

Daddy and I enjoyed our one on one time with you in the hospital, but I know by far my favorite moment after your arrival was...

the look on David's face when he first saw you! I know most 2 year olds don't seem to pay much attention to babies, but I think he KNEW how much he loved you from that first day. His face lit up and he wouldn't stop giggling. I am so happy God saw it fit that our family include 2 amazing little boys!

We love you so much Jonathan and can't wait to see how God continues to shape and mold you. You are truly a gift to us and we are so thankful to have you in our lives!

Getting to know David, age 3

2008-11-21T16:27:00.001-08:00

David is quite the little character. God has certainly given David a determined spirit and his little quirks are so funny. For the most part he likes to please us and obey... we talk a lot about how God expects him to obey us and in return he is obeying Him while learning right from wrong. Some days are better than others. Whining seems to have slipped back into his daily life right now, but for the most part David is a great kid with tunnel vision and a passion for having fun (in an all boy way!). He is rough and tumble, yet loves to give Jonathan kisses. He really enjoys school and has a new buddy, Jackson, that is so nice. He seems to do well in 3K, even though he is the youngest in the class. He is certainly not a follower, in fact I think he teachers would more say he is the entertainer of the group :). He loves to giggle and has the most amazing laugh (that he gets from his amazing dad!). He has his own unique accent and scrunches up his face a little when he asks questions, it is so cute! Day to day life with David is simply amazing. He makes us laugh and want to pull out our hair, all in one breath! If David asks a question and you don't answer right away, he just keeps asking until you do answer and then if he doesn't really like the reply, he will continue to ask why, over and over. He likes the "cold side of the pillow" when he is falling asleep and plays "back-ets-ball" with his daddy once a week at our rec. center. David loves puzzles and music. If he smells something different, he says "I smell wike somefing" and if it is cold outside, he says it is "coldy" (you know, just like it's sunny, ha). David likes to build castles and "turn-els" for Jonathan to tear down and he LOVES to sneak out of bed and watch us from the landing upstairs. He is a horrible bed partner, but a great helper in the kitchen and has a sweet tooth that we have to watch. But most importantly, David is David and we wouldn't change him for the world!

And now for some more fun I thought I'd do a little Q&A with the little man himself:

Me: "What is your favorite food? "
D: "Well,I don't like broccoli, but I do like donuts. I like those the best!"

Me: "What is your favorite movie?"
D: "Madagascar 2, I fink"

Me: "What is your favorite toy right now?"
D: "Does Incredible Hulk hands, you know what I'm talking about?" *scrunches up his face*

D: Wait, lets not talk about fings right now."

And there you have it. I was just about to ask some deeper questions, but he isn't in the mood right now. I'll try again later...

David and his bud Jackson on "Kalloween"!

"Kalloween" 2008

2008-11-13T17:44:00.000-08:00

I'm not sure what is going on, but I couldn't seem to get our pictures in order. I'm posting them anyway... and special thanks to Jessica for her suggestion on another way to post pictures. I plan to try it soon!
This halloween (David still says kalloween, hence the title) we had a great time with family! Dee Dee and Daddy T came trick or treating with us and then treated Trey and I by taking the boys to their beach house for a night. Whoo-whoo, we got to sleep in!
Jonathan had 2 costumes. One cooler costume for his school party/festival and a warmer one for trick or treating. I loved this little lion one, Trey hated it. I think he looks so cute!

What a little ham!

David and I did lots of fun projects. He is really getting so big. The plus to this is that he pays attention longer and enjoys doing things like baking cookies with me. He was having a great time playing in the flour!

He was so dirty!

We also carved our first jack-o-lantern. He had a great time, even though he didn't take all the pulp out like I'd hoped!

He was so proud!

Our neighborhood really was the perfect size for trick or treating. We did one loop around and saw lots of people we meet from our cookout in early fall. David had a blast and would run back to us after he got candy and say "I got even more!!!". Jonathan also had a great time as a warm little dinosaur watching his big brother. I'm sure next year he'll be running around too. We are so glad Dee Dee and Daddy T joined us. We had a wonderful time!

*My dad shaved his head just like Bayler, he isn't THAT bald usually. What a sweet Daddy T!

Blogger blues

2008-11-09T17:56:00.001-08:00

So, the one night I make time to sit down and try to update our blog, it seems blogger has a different plan. I promised DeeDee that I would update the blog tonight and include all the fun we had on "Kalloween", yes David still calls it that! However, blogger is not cooperating (after 30 minutes of trying!) with pictures so I will have to wait until tomorrow. I did however want to ask for prayer for Bayler. He starts his 3rd round of chemo tomorrow and this round is suppose to be more powerful than the others. Please keep him in your prayers. He is such a sweet kiddo and is really fighting this battle hard!!

11 months

2008-10-26T17:56:00.000-07:00

I really can't believe how last Jonathan is growing! I guess it seems like it happens so much faster because he is trying so hard to keep up with "Day-Day" as David calls himself :). Seriously, my boys LOVE each other! They tackle, hug, throw, and giggle together daily. Now that we are starting to have to "discipline" Jon a little (you know, don't touch the T.V. or climb on dangerous things...) David is so protective. Jonathan could care less that we are telling him no, but David will start crying and then Jon starts crying once David is sad! It is too funny. Here are some more fun things to note about our almost 1 year old:

Favorite game: tackling David
Favorite books: Animals on the Farm, Tractors, Goodnight Moon
Favorite food: crackers and his bottle
Favorite toy: anything David is playing with and a ball
Blanket? YES! He sleeps with a special yellow blanket all the time
Paci? Of course!
Cuddle bug? YES! And I LOVE it!
Smile often? yes, and oh it is infectious!
Teeth? 4 (2 bottom, 2 "fangs" on top) and seems to be cutting the top middle
Walking? SO close to taking off...
Sleeping through the night? Yes!
School? He is doing well at FPC. He loves his teachers and they seem to feel the same way :).

*I never posted his 10 month stats so here they are...
Weight: 22 lbs.
Height: 30 inches
Head: 18 3/4 inches

Jonathan is such a happy, sweet, huggable baby! He is dramatic (will lay on the floor with his face down flat and start to cry if he is made/sad) and a risk taker. Jon plays shy if you speak to him, but it is just a flirting game :). He turns his head sideways and smiles with his dimples showing... it melts my heart everytime. We are so in love with him and are thankful for the joy he brings to our lives!

Around here...

2008-10-21T12:35:00.000-07:00

Dinner is impossible to make...

...because my boys love to be under my feet (or in the cabinets).

My phone doesn't always work...

...probably because it is Jon's favorite chew toy.

*Teething is brutal
*David is eating us out of house and home
*My house is NEVER really clean

BUT, I wouldn't have it ANY OTHER WAY !!!!

For Dr. Bramlett and taking steps...

2008-10-18T15:56:00.000-07:00

Strange title, I know. I just wanted to document this little story and I thought Dr. Bramlett (my mom's boss, who is also a a dentist and family friend!) would get a kick out of it... so here is the story of our future dentist.

At school this week, David was playing on the playground with his friends. They include his new bud, Jackson, who is equally as sweet to David as David is to him and they play so well together... and David's "crush" Liza. Liza is a kindergartener who is so precious to David and plays with him on the playground. Well, being an older woman and all, Liza is losing teeth. Specifically her top front teeth. Apparently, she was showing David the "coolness" of a loose tooth and asked him if he wanted to wiggle it. Well, David reached in and pulled instead of wiggled and out popped her tooth! He just stood there frozen and in shock while Liza hugged him excitedly because it was out! She was jumping up and down yelling "thank you, thank you!". David finally kinda smiled and started sharing in the fun. He has been telling everyone he meets all week "I made 'W'iza's toof come out!". Maybe he will be a dentist one day!

And as far as the taking steps goes... Jonathan is officially taking confident steps at 10 months of age. He takes about 3 or 4 before he sits down. I think his motivation is trying to keep up with his big brother, oh he loves "Day" so much! Maybe he will be able to soon!

Go Bayler!

2008-10-08T16:58:00.001-07:00

Yeah! Bayler got to come home for a few days today! We are so excited and wish we could see him. Saturday, David told me he wanted to get dressed in full uniform... pads, jersey, helment, "his fastest shoes". When we walked outside to play a little football, he said "Mama, I want to dress up like this and show Bayler I can be a big boy too. You think he'll like this go Gamecocks shirt?". So,we played a little football just for you Bayler Bean!

We are so proud of you and can't wait to see you soon! We love you Bayler!

So much to say...

2008-09-24T18:53:00.000-07:00

but I have no time. So I'll just post some pictures of my little man because I don't want to forget a single detail about his precious self at this age!

Bayler's CaringBridge Page

2008-09-19T20:07:00.001-07:00

Just wanted to let everyone know that Bayler has a CaringBridge page now. He might be able to come home for a night or two before he starts his first treatment, which will require him to be back in the hospital. Thank you again for all your thoughts and prayers. Our family has been blown away by the amount of prayers and support. We are humbled and thank you so much. We are staying strong and believing God is in control.

Stage 4, Neuroblastoma

2008-09-17T18:54:00.001-07:00

First of all, thank you for caring so much about precious Bayler. Your prayers mean a lot to our family. The test results were not great and after a bone marrow withdraw, they grew even more grim. His cancer is in stage 4 and the doctors will begin treatment on Monday. He has a long way to go to be cured from this type of cancer. They found several masses on his kidneys and spots on his liver. I haven't had a chance to ask Rob for specific prayer request yet, but right now we are just aiming for COMPLETE HEALING!!! We know God is in control of this and we ask that even in this terrifying time, He would be given the glory for what will happen in Bayler's sweet life. We are praying that a miracle would occur and that God would take away ALL the cancer from his little body. I ask that you continue to pray for Rob, Risha, and Bridges (his 3 year old brother). I pray that when the shock wears off, they will be strong for Bayler and continue to believe that God will heal him. Again, thank you so much for your prayers. There are literally people praying from coast to coast and we are thankful for the support. God is good, ALL the time...

Please, PLEASE, PRAY!

2008-09-17T18:54:00.000-07:00

We found out today that my sweet, incredible nephew, Bayler, is VERY sick. He has cancer (I feel like I might throw up just typing that here). They are still running tests to find out exactly what kind and what the plan is but I am asking anyone who reads this to pass on his name for prayer. PLEASE! Bayler is 5, just started kindergarten, and has the most amazing heart of any child I know. Please pray for my brother Rob and his wife Risha. We are trusting and believing that God will heal him! I will continue to update any information that will help us pray for them. Please pray!

Wellspring Church Update...

2008-09-16T13:05:00.000-07:00

Trey and I just returned from an amazing weekend at Elevation Church. All I can say is WOW! God is doing amazing things there and it was really fun to see how they are reaching so many people. Trey wrote a great post on his blog about what we learned and how it has impacted us as we begin Wellspring. I encourage you to check it out! Today he posted how it has specifically changed him and what we think our next steps are for the church. Read it... it just might change your life as well.

Joy

2008-09-10T19:49:00.000-07:00

David has been asking and asking for rain boots...

and the excitement he had today as he ran and jumped through all the puddles was priceless!

Last time Mimi was here, she purchased these boots and David has been waiting for the chance to use them. He had the most amazing time jumping and running through the puddles in our neighborhood.

Mr. Foster, our next door neighbor, even joined in the fun. He is so nice and always comments on how much he likes having David around.

Pure joy!

First Day of 3-K

2008-09-04T19:46:00.001-07:00

I am still in shock that David is old enough to be in 3 year kindergarten! He is such a big boy now.

So far David's teachers have reported that he is a leader and the class entertainer (yes, after only 2 days!). He was the special friend today which meant he helped the teacher and lead the line to the playground. He really likes his new school, but still misses his friends from Texas! He is already singing new songs and sharing stories about his day.
This is my attempt at taking a picture of the boys together. Jon-Jon will NEVER sit still and all the pictures were of him crawling away... maybe next year! Jon is also doing well and has yet to cry for his teachers. He has missed his morning nap both days and today when I walked in his room he had just fallen asleep sitting up in the highchair. Hopefully we'll get his schedule straight soon!

*An update on Hanna... I think we are staying put, but we are going to cancel our block party. We don't have school tomorrow because Horry County schools are closed. Looks like we're in for a lot of rain and some wind... now if Ike would just calm down a little!

Full calendar...

2008-09-02T11:06:00.000-07:00

Well after spending the summer getting settled into our new town I can now say life is speeding up for the Kelly's. Here is a few things that are happening in our little family this week...

We have our first official Wellspring event tonight. Go to Trey's blog to find out the details if you're interested in attending or want to know how to pray.

We had orientation at school today and the first real day is tomorrow!

I had an AWESOME God moment today during orientation. I'll share the details later.

We are praying that Hanna doesn't hit us!

And our neighborhood party is this Saturday.

Throw in well-checks for both kids at a new pediatrican's office, haircuts, and a Carolina game on Thursday night... I'm already asking the Lord for strength when I look at that list! I'm off to clean my house...

"Super Man-David!"

2008-09-01T05:53:00.001-07:00

I'm not really sure David even knows what super heroes do or if he's ever watched a cartoon of Super Man or Spider Man, however he is a victim of great advertising in stores and through toys. He LOVES to run through the house screaming "I'm Super Man David!" and pretending to fly. I consider it a true mark of no longer having a toddler... he is getting to be such a big boy!

I want to do a much longer post and a little Q & A with David soon. I don't think I can accurately describe or portray the amount of personality this kid has! The good part about that is his good days are most excellent and super fun, however his bad, whiny, awful days could go down in the record books!

Here is Super Man David "rescuing' his baby brother. They are already very rough with one another, even though I stand by them pleading to "be gentle" and "treat him with kindness". I have 2 of those "all boy" kind of boys :)! By the way, I have a feeling Jon-Jon will be a great match for his big brother soon!

It's here, it's here!

2008-08-28T11:04:00.000-07:00

O.K. I know I usually have a picture of David in his Gamecock gear at the beginning of football season, but I just haven't had the time to take a picture today... no fear though, he is wearing his jersey! This is my favorite time of year, COLLEGE FOOTBALL! I love autumn (even though it is still steaming here) and everything to do with the season. Trey and I are so excited to be close enough to go to ALL the home games for South Caroline this year. It's been 5 years, folks. That's WAY too long for us! I am exhausted from working in my classroom all week (being the "new girl" means I have a lot to learn and do, even if it is just part-time), but we will be hitting the road soon and driving to Williams-Brice Stadium. I'll post pictures of the boys in their gear later this weekend. I sure hope Spurrier and the rest of the team can pull off a victory tonight! Go Gamecocks!

So Big!

2008-08-21T18:09:00.001-07:00

Here is our big boy! Jon is growing so quickly, turning 9 months on the 26th. He is a joy to be with and is really a great baby. Here is a picture of his newest trick... sticking out his tongue, constantly! It most often occurs when he is concentrating. Oh, I could just squeeze him!

I won't know until September exactly how big Jon has gotten, but when we are out in public and people ask how old he is, most often the response is "Wow, what a big boy!" In addition to all the physical growing Jon has been doing, he is developing just as much with his "talking". He can clearly say Mama, Dada, bye-bye, and I think he screams David (sounds more like "day") some too. He doesn't always respond and say what you want him to, but he "talks" a lot on his own. This picture was taken when we were staying a Papa Dock's... both of my boys have enjoyed playing in this back hallway.

Jon is quite the wild man lately and while I'm completely happy for him (he LOVES exploring this wonderful, crazy world!) it makes me a little sad that it is happening so quickly. David was much slower when it came to getting around. Jon literally went from sitting to speed crawling/cruising within a week! He is incredibly strong and can let go and balance for a few seconds before he sits. The best way to describe his personality when it comes to physical challenges... he attacks it! He falls ALL the time, cries, and then does it again until he gets it. Jon loves that he can attempt to keep up with David now. David is still patient with him MOST of the time and Jon simply ADORES David. They are precious little men!
And for every wild bone in his body, Jon is also completely loving and cuddly! He gives the tightest hugs and big, open mouth kisses. He also plays "shy" (hides his head on our shoulder) when you first say hello. He is such a love bug... and we are so blessed!

What my kids do while I unpack boxes...

2008-08-14T18:39:00.000-07:00

I stick them both in "baby jail"! Actually, David crawls in himself and entertains Jon for me. Jon is a maniac lately and only wants to speed crawl or pull up and cruise on furniture. Although I am very happy he waited until we left Papa Dock's house (with 4 different stairways to explore!) it makes unpacking a little challenging. I just do as much as possible during the day and then work like crazy at night (between olympic events, of course). I love the last expression from Jon-Jon. He completely looks like he is thinking "help me!", which he very well maybe! Now, back to more unpacking...

Cross Country Numbers

2008-08-14T11:08:00.000-07:00

4- times David threw-up the morning we were to leave Texas.
102- degree of Jon's fever that same morning.
1- pediatrician we saw before we left Texas, we miss Dr. Deitchman!
3- hours we were behind when we finally left, armed with anti-nausea medicine and motrin.
2- side of the road stops for Jon, poor guy was burning up and MAD about being in his seat.
1- AWESOME God moment in Longview, TX. We actually heard Myrtle Beach Days playing over the loud speaker in a random KFC/TACO BELL restaurant. We had a smile on our faces the rest of the day.
1- stop in Jackson, Mississippi for an overnight stay .
Thousands- of beautiful magnolia trees between LA and SC... it was a welcoming sight.
2-stops made on the second day of travel from Mississippi to Georgia. That's right, 9 hours of driving and only 2 stops!
2- shoes that came flying into the front seat at end of said 9 hours on day two. David was yelling "stop driving mom!" from the back seat.
5- grateful people to have survived the trip. We are excited about the start of Wellspring Church in Myrtle Beach, SC!

*The picture above was taken over 2 months ago when we started day 2 of driving and my kiddos have grown so much... that is another post in the works.

3 years ago today...

2008-08-11T07:13:00.000-07:00

our sweet David was born at 4:33 pm. I can't believe our baby is 3! I will never forget the first time I looked into his eyes, just seconds after he was born. It was the most amazing feeling... like I'd always known him, loved him, and adored him even though he had just joined the world. David is such a great kid. He is smart, entertaining, extremely talkative, and funny. He never meets a stranger and is the best big brother! He LOVES "his baby" and other than the few times (a day) he tackles Jon, he is really loving to him and covers him with kisses and hugs. David is also a little hard-headed and dramatic. He knows what he wants and he doesn't back down easily. We work on this daily :)! He has handled our topsy-turvy summer pretty well, even though he certainly works better on a schedule. We are excited to start school so our days have more structure to them! David's current favorites are playing baseball (of course!) and playing "Rock Band". He does a really awesome rock and roll face (see pictures below) and can recognize music (instruments, singers, and where he has heard it before) with ease. I am amazed how he remembers things... he can tell you the scene from the movie he heard a song (sometimes just from a pre-view) and will also say "they're playing the piano (or drums, or guitar)". He still calls himself "the great Bambino" and lately he walks around singing "Wanted! Dead or Alive" and "Sississpy Queen", which he learned from playing Rock Band on the Wii. We are thankful for each day that we get to spend with our little man. It is a joy to watch him grow and learn and we praise the Lord for one of our most precious blessings! We love you David... Yummy, ice cream! David is having several celebrations (Trey says we should just start calling him Anne :)!!!) so I am going to wait until they are all complete and do a recap. This is from lunch today at Hard Rock Cafe.

What a sweet little man!

Oh, he has the best laugh!

Rock and Roll!

We love you so much!!!

Status

2008-08-07T10:56:00.000-07:00

-We are in our house... sort of. We haven't closed but all the stuff is here and we are sorting through and unpacking. Jeez, we have a ton of stuff!
-I found a part time teaching position at a preschool and the boys will be with me. Much like the set up in Texas (hello to all my wonderful New Creations friends, we miss you!). We are excited and I can't believe David will be in 3 year kindergarten!!!
-I miss blogging, downloading pictures, and generally having time on the computer, but I can't operate with my house in it's current state so I plan to post more next week. My posts will include...

Numbers from the drive across country.
Jon's growth since we moved... goodness he is getting big fast!
Our house and pictures.
Pictures, pictures, and more pictures of the boys summer fun!

Again, Trey's blog is usually updated and I think he is a pretty cool guy so if you are just dying to read something a Kelly has written, visit his site! Sorry grandparents, he doesn't post many pictures of the kiddos!

No pictures...

2008-07-18T11:00:00.000-07:00

but I did want to update what has happened the last few days...

1. We have a house! Yeah! I'll post pictures when I get the chance.
2. David is 95% potty trained!!! He FINALLY just "got it" a few days ago. He even woke up dry from nap yesterday and this morning. The only time he seems to have accidents is when he is playing Rock Band on the Wii. He doesn't want to stop to go potty!
3. Jon has 2 teeth (bottom front)!
4. We miss our friends, but are happy to be close to family.
5. Trey is really keeping up with his blog. Read it, I think it's great.
6. God is giving us a lot of direction for His church and we are excited about the upcoming months!

I can't wait to have a computer again and will have LOTS of pictures to post when I do!

Still Kickin'

2008-07-05T11:04:00.000-07:00

Well, I guess you can tell that I have very limited internet access :)! Just wanted to let all my readers know, I will still blog... when we get a permanent residence (staying with my sweet father-in-law for now), when Jon and David sleep through the night again, and when I get my computer up and running. God is SO GOOD and we are happily settling in here in Myrtle Beach. We've had lots of company and are enjoying getting to know all the "locals" here in the heart of the city. God has been faithful and we are thankful. I've had a few hard days where I really wish I could blend my two worlds (TX and SC, btw hello to all my sweet TX friends!!!), but overall I can say we are doing well. Trey has a laptop so he is updating his blog often. Check it out to see what we're up to. He did a great job summing up the drive here, which a post in and of itself when I find time. We'll be back soon!

Moving right along...

2008-06-16T22:09:00.000-07:00

Well, we haven't sold our house yet but we are in the last stages of packing up to move! We will be staying with Trey's dad in Myrtle Beach until our house sells. So, we have been really busy packing up everything before we go. I have a ton to update... and hope to do so tomorrow if I can get to it before we pack up the computer. In more exciting news, Trey has begun a blog! treykellyblog.com is the address and I encourage you to check it out. Our friend Bill Jones designed it and I think it is really incredible! Maybe I can get him to update my page a little in the future :).

One last thing before I go pack more boxes... I wanted to document this conversation with David we had on the plane coming back from North Carolina last week. It was the first time he called me by my real name :).

David (looking out the window of the plane): "Hey, Dani, look at the plane!" Then he stopped and looked thoughtfully at me... "Wait, is your name Dani?"

Me (laughing): "Yes, that's my name, but you just call me mommy."

David (nodding in agreement) "Yeah, I know... you're mommy, my mommy."

Oh, I just love him!!!

Refund!

2008-06-04T21:32:00.000-07:00

You know how you can't ignore certain things that keep coming up in life? Lately, for me, info on bad plastics (#3, #6, #7 & BPA) have been popping up everywhere! I had done some research but really didn't feel the budget part was working for us. Well, yesterday I ventured into the BabiesRUs in Hurst and happened to overhear a mom talking to a manager about some of her Dr. Brown's products. Turns out they were refunding the bottles at FULL PRICE because of the harmful toxins! I ran home and pulled together $75 worth of used bottles. I returned them and purchased these. I'd like to make a switch to glass (they make really great ones with silicone covers, however we travel so much I don't want to chance the breaking factor). If you want more information, I recommend you check out this site. We are slowly making some headway into making our home much less "toxic"!!!

Jon's thoughts on water in a sippy cup...

2008-06-04T20:57:00.000-07:00

"What now mom... and when are you going to get that camera outta my face?!?"

"What IS this cold stuff??? UGH!"

"At least it is great to teeth on..."

*Jon did better at dinner with the sippy cup. David NEVER would drink from one, he went straight to a straw cup so I thought I'd start earlier this time around. And Jon has been super sad today. I don't know if he is missing the action of his big brother or his teeth are really bothering him. We fly to NC for my cousins wedding tomorrow so I hope he feels better in the morning! I miss David so much and I'm counting down the hours til I see my baby again!!!

Could you tell???

2008-06-03T20:13:00.001-07:00

So... to the small number of folks that actually follow our little blog I have a question. Could you tell the difference in the last post?

How about in this picture...
or this one (by the way, he is such a drool monster!)? Can you see the amazing quality of the pictures? It's because my thoughtful, amazing, sweet, wonderful husband got me this...

a Canon Rebel XSI!!!!! And I LOVE it! I have had so much fun taking pictures of Jon and can't wait to take some of David (he is already in SC and we'll join him Thursday). I have always enjoyed taking pictures and wanted it to be a hobby... now I can! Thanks baby, I love my new toy!!!

Jon at 6 months...

2008-06-02T18:02:00.000-07:00

Here are some fun facts about Jonathan at this age:

Height- 271/2 inches (I thought he'd grown more...)
Weight- 19.2 lbs.
Head- 45 cm
Clothing size- 9-12 month
Food- just cereal, we've tried avocado but he's not a fan yet!
Sleep- finally at least 8 hours at night!!!
Gross motor- rolling around like crazy to get to a destination, almost sitting on his own
Fine motor- grabbing objects and sticking them straight into his mouth
Teeth- not yet, but from the amount of drool we think he must be getting one soon!
Personality- SO HAPPY! He is such a joy to be around and just talking to him makes his face light up! He especially loves when David talks and plays with him. He adores his big brother. Jon is pretty go with the flow now and enjoys doing whatever we are doing as long as he can see us :)! We are truly thankful and blessed by this little guy everyday...

*I have a few more pics to add but blogger is being stubborn right now! I will also post a picture of David at this age... it is really fun to see the resemblances and differences with my two boys!